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Attention Married Couples: How to Get in Sync with These Nine Essential Money Practices

Echo Huang • Nov 20, 2020

Oh, the dichotomy of money talks with your spouse. They’re so vital to have, yet they are often uncomfortable. So, not surprisingly, most married couples aren’t properly communicating about financial habits and money values.


When a couple marries, they bring their individual money values into the union, which can be as unique as their fingerprints.  These values have been created over a lifetime, often through observing parents, and most people are deeply entrenched in them. The trouble is that most couples don’t discuss these values.


The money discussion is an important one to have, though. To make the topics easier to broach, think of your spouse as a business partner. Viewing your household as an operating business may help set emotion and discomfort to the side and allow you to engage in meaningful conversations.


If you’re ready to get on the same financial page as your spouse, check out these nine ways couples can get in sync and avoid money conflicts.


Maintain Separate Bank Accounts, Plus One Joint Account


One common suggestion for married couples—especially those with divergent money values, like one saver and one spender—is to maintain individual bank accounts along with a joint account for shared expenses. This leaves each spouse some financial freedom while both commit to following any guidelines agreed upon for the joint account. All shared bills, such as utilities, mortgage or rent, car payments, food, and insurance, should come out of the shared account. How much each spouse contributes (especially if there is a difference in earnings) should be discussed, as a 50/50 split may not be feasible. What’s most important is that the shared account can track all household expenses through a system that both spouses agree on.


Create a Realistic Household Budget


If you’re taking the step of setting up a joint bank account for household expenses, you’ll need to consider all your bills. Understanding how much it costs to live your lifestyle as a couple is paramount to knowing how much you need to spend each month, as well as how much you want to save down the line. Tracking your spending and understanding how much is coming in and going out is a great way to get a handle on monthly expenditures. If finances are tight, careful budgeting also offers an opportunity to discuss all the extras (coffee, lunches out, pricey gym memberships, fitness coach, etc.) and decide together how to move forward with shared financial goals in mind.


Set Financial Goals as a Team


If you haven’t established any financial goals yet, it’s time to get started. Once you have your monthly budget determined, the next step is to discuss your long-term goals together. What do you want to do in retirement? Where do you want to live? What about the kid’s college costs? This is the time to layout your hopes, dreams, and fears for the future. Many couples find they have different goals, so the earlier you can start talking about this, the more time you have to devise a joint plan for your financial future.


Save, Save, Save


This is a big, important goal that every married couple should commit to. You need to be saving, even when times are tight. One of the most straightforward and most painless ways is to max out your 401(k) contributions to take full advantage of any employer match opportunities. When it comes to retirement savings, a good goal is to be saving at least 10 percent of your yearly income towards retirement.


If you have children, starting a 529 education savings account and making regular contributions can help the cost of college down the line. On top of that, have a joint emergency savings account that you can access for emergencies that may arise. Consider contributing to it every pay period through an automatic funds transfer.


While it may seem overwhelming to set aside so much, having enough savings can be the difference between a rough patch and a disaster, so make it a priority.


Handle Debt as a Team


In many marriages, each spouse brings their own debt, whether from student loans, credit cards, or something else. It’s vital to tackle these individual debts as a team, even if the debt is your spouse’s and happened before you were married. Remember that debt can affect you both, be it in quality of life or in the ability to get a line of credit or buy a house, so it’s critical that you be all-in when it comes to a payoff plan. Develop a plan to pay down any high interest, toxic debt first, then go from there. There are many ways to tackle debt—the important thing is that you do it together.


Live Within Your Means


A major step in paying down your debt is to start living within your means. Make sure you are taking in more than you are spending each month. This may mean a period of belt-tightening, but when both of you commit to it, it’s possible to quickly pay down debt. While taking these steps, keep your eye on the bigger picture—your shared financial goals and values.


Check-in Regularly


Life has a way of interrupting even the best-laid plans, so you mustn't stop discussing your financial goals after the initial discussion and planning. Schedule periodic meetings to check in with one another, keeping an eye on your budget and shared goals. Schedule these check-ins for quiet times when you aren’t likely to be disturbed. You want to ensure that you can have open, forthright discussions to continue moving forward together on a firm financial footing.


Face Hard Times Together


Even if you and your spouse are doing everything right, you could still find yourself falling on hard times. An unexpected job loss or medical issue, for example, could quickly deplete your savings and throw all your hard work out the window. Prepare for possible hard times together by aiming to have an emergency savings fund of three months to six months of your living expenses that is not invested in stock markets or inside your retirement accounts. Keep the emergency savings fund in a savings account earning higher interest than a checking account.


For example, Ally.com’s online savings account pays higher interest than most banks, currently at 0.60%. If you own a home, consider having a home equity line of credit (HELOC) available to you so that you do not need to have too much in the emergency fund. Suppose you tap into it to pay for unexpected expenses. In that case, the interest rate of HELOC is generally lower than credit cards and, you only pay interest on the HELOC debt balance.


Maintain proper health and life insurance and get regular medical checkups. Take care of your vehicles and home as best you can. Planning together can solve a host of financial issues, as well as keeping your marriage strong in the face of adversity.

Don’t Keep Secrets


This tip ranks high, as failing to follow it can have a profound impact on a relationship. Many marriages have suffered the fate of “financial infidelity”—that is, hiding spending, debts, or other financial issues from a spouse. Secrets of this nature are corrosive and lend themselves to more significant problems down the line. It’s much better to be honest and work through financial issues together, rather than getting caught up in deliberate deceit.


While money issues can easily cause discord in a marriage, they don’t have to. By following the nine steps above, you can stay in sync with your spouse and remain on firm financial footing together. 


If you’d like to do a self-check with your finances, I invite you to read my book, Own Your Future, where I share seven life-guiding principles and give you tools and education to think properly about your money. Today is the best day to start on your path to financial independence!

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How important is long-term care? It is important enough for you to plan it. It is important enough for you to do it. It is important enough for you to think twice. That is why we observe National Long-term Care "Planning" Month in October, followed by National Long-term Care "Awareness" Month in November. The double reminder tells us that long-term care is critical in creating a healthy financial picture. It can be a meaningful gift that enhances peace of mind to the very end for you and your loved ones. In the previous article, we discussed the following: How long-term care is not as scary as you think Long-term care as part of your wealth management plan Why plan early for long-term care Let's now expand the long-term care conversation to explore the most common questions people ask to help you gain clarity on the next steps. What is long-term care, and why is it important? Long-term care involves various services designed to meet a person's health or personal care needs during a short or long period. These services help you live as independently and safely as possible when you can no longer perform everyday activities independently. What are the three basic levels of long-term care? Care is usually provided in three main stages: independent living, assisted living, and skilled nursing. Nursing homes offer care at home or in the community. Nursing homes provide skilled nursing care, rehabilitation services, meals, activities, help with daily living, and supervision. What is the monthly cost of long-term care? According to Genworth's year 2021 data, monthly median costs for Minneapolis Area are $11,708 for a semi-private room in a nursing home facility. Homemaker services: $7,055. How long do most people live in long-term care? According to the latest AOA research, the average woman needs long-term care services for 3.7 years, and the average man for 2.2 years. What are the significant trends in long-term care? An AARP survey revealed that 90% of adults over 65 would prefer to remain in their homes as long as possible. This statistic should be significant to long-term care facilities because they must consider including in-home health care to meet changing consumer preferences. What is commonly offered at long-term care facilities? These services typically include nursing care, 24-hour supervision, three meals daily, and assistance with everyday activities. Rehabilitation services, such as physical, occupational, and speech therapy, are available. Remember that you might stay at a nursing home for a short time after being in the hospital. Why is long-term care growing? An aging population and the increasing prevalence of chronic conditions will drive up demand for long-term care services, including assistance with the activities of daily life. What is the purpose of a long-term care policy? Owning a long-term care insurance policy aims to help you maintain your lifestyle as you age. Medicare, Medicare supplement insurance, and the health insurance you may have at work usually won't pay for long-term care. Thank you for exploring this important topic with us. For a complimentary long-term care plan review, schedule a time with an Echo Wealth Management team member. Together, let's identify possible action items to help you deliver continued peace of mind for your family.
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A good decision would be to purchase an individual or private life insurance policy outside of the workplace to supplement their coverage through work, especially if you have student loans or debt with a co-signer, support aging parents, or don’t wish to leave final expenses to family. Getting an early start on life insurance is smart as rates are typically much more affordable when you’re young and healthy. Generally, level-term life insurance (20 to 30 years) works well for people who plan to have children in the future. Level-term life insurance means the premium does not change during 20 or 30 years, unlike the group term policy through work. For example, it can cost $250,000 to raise a child, and you have a student loan balance and a mortgage, paying less than $500 per year could potentially have $1 million coverage when you are under age 30 and healthy. 2. 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Maybe I could make it easier for you to consider if I asked you to look at long-term care as a protection for your children/loved ones in lessening their burden when caring for you. When her fifty-year-old husband suffered a fatal stroke, “Lily” came to me to figure out what financial decisions she needed to make for her and her daughter in case she ever needed long-term care. Neither she nor her husband had a long-term care policy because they assumed they wouldn’t need it until they were in their seventies or eighties. Like most people their age, they thought they had more time to think about it. Another reason people don’t think about long-term care is the same reason they often don’t want to think about estate planning - they don’t want to dwell on their own disability. No one wants to think about being incapacitated and not being about to perform the six activities of daily living: eating, dressing, bathing, toileting, transferring, and continence. Unfortunately, the reality is that many of us have to face this situation at some point in our lives. Too many people make the mistake of waiting too long to take out a policy to protect them from this eventuality. Why Plan Early? More than a decade ago, Congress passed a law to encourage more people, especially baby boomers, to plan early by buying long-term care insurance. Special tax benefits were offered to motivate people to plan ahead so that they didn’t end up on government assistance, either Medicare or Medicaid. The government’s attempt to incentivize individuals to plan early was a good idea for a number of reasons: First , monthly premiums are based on your age when you apply. This makes premiums less expensive when you’re younger. Second , people often wait until their late fifties or later to buy long-term care insurance without realizing that predicting the withdrawal of the benefits is problematic - we rarely know when we will need long-term care. A stroke or a heart attack can happen to people in their forties or fifties. Third , coverage is dependent upon your current health status. If you have a sudden heart attack or injury and have an extended hospital stay, the chances of getting a long-term care policy afterward dwindle away to almost nothing because of your preexisting condition. It’s best to buy your policy when you’re young and healthy because not everyone can qualify if they wait longer. This is particularly true for those with a family history of Alzheimer’s. These individuals are more likely to use long-term care for a longer period of time, which makes it even more important to consider buying long-term-care insurance early before you may show symptoms and buy a longer benefit period than the average of three years. I bought my policy before I turned forty. No one in my office at the time had heard of someone buying a policy this young. I had a good reason. For years, I had been calling home to my mother in China, and every time we spoke, she told me how difficult it had been for her to visit my uncle, who had Alzheimer’s and no longer recognized her. He was the oldest brother who put her through college after my grandfather died; he was like a father to her. After nine difficult years with Alzheimer’s, my uncle passed away, and this made me realize how important it is to have long-term-care insurance, not just so that you get adequate care as you decline mentally or physically, but also so that the estate you’ve worked so long to build isn’t used to pay for this care or for modifications to your home if, for example, you can’t climb the stairs. With the high cost of this care, paying out of pocket could leave your family penniless. The costs of long-term care often exceed what the average person can pay from their income and other assets. If you think about all the possible health scenarios you could face in your life, it becomes apparent that a financial plan that doesn’t include long-term-care planning is not comprehensive. Too often, people focus on investment planning or college or retirement planning without considering what would happen to their wealth if they were suddenly faced with the cost of long-term care, which can be upward of $7,000 a month. If you or your spouse needed two or three years of long-term care, that could significantly derail your retirement plans. It’s important to be smart about your resources now so that you don’t leave yourself open to that amount of risk. Very often, people do not plan ahead. This is due to a reluctance to think about getting older, developing a disability, becoming less independent, or needing help with personal care. At the same time, they often believe that health insurance, Medicare, and/or disability coverage will cover most long-term-care services should they be needed, so they don’t need to dwell on illness and aging. Health insurance, Medicare, and/or disability coverage is very limited in its coverage. That means people are often living with a false sense of comfort that their needs, should they have any, will be taken care of long-term. Thanks for bringing your head out from under the covers to read about long-term care. If you’d like to have a more personal conversation about what options and plans may be best for you, please get in touch with me today.
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